Wednesday, November 18, 2015

The POWER of Appreciation


November is the month when many of us pay more attention to being thankful - the Thanksgiving holiday helps remind us. We know it is a good thing to acknowledge and appreciate our blessings, but do we really understand the POWER of gratitude and appreciation?


I believe that everything we experience is brought about by our consciousness – i.e. our thoughts and emotions – our “Vibration”. You may have heard the phrase, “Energy flows where our attention goes.”



When we go through our typical days, and notice a lot of things we don’t like, such as the traffic, the high electric bill, the news, the way someone is driving, the service in a restaurant (you get the idea)… then we give more of our energy (our Life Force) to the things we DON’T want! 



To really understand the ‘Power of Appreciation’, we need to take this concept even deeper to a principle called “Law of Attraction”.



A great analogy for this is a tuning fork.  Tuning forks are designed to vibrate at a specific tone or frequency.  When we strike a tuning fork tuned to the note of “C”, for example, it will vibrate at the frequency of a perfect ”C”, and we will hear that sound.  If you hold another tuning fork near it that is also tuned to the note of “C”, the second fork will vibrate and ‘sing’ the note of “C” without being struck!  It can even affect another same-tone tuning fork as far away as the length of a football field!




The interesting thing is that this ‘spontaneous’ vibration occurs ONLY if both forks are tuned to the same note.  You could hold up tuning forks of different notes and nothing will happen. 



SO…. When we are focusing on all the irritations, frustrations and things we DON’T like, these emotions generate our frequency (vibration) and we actually ATTRACT more of what we don’t want in our experience!



SO… how do we stop being irritated and frustrated?  How can we change our Vibration to attract what we DO want?



This is done through the Power of Appreciation!  It takes some awareness and a little practice (well, perhaps a lot of practice J). Whenever we notice feelings of frustration or irritation, we must notice what we are focusing on, and then find 2 or 3 things to really appreciate!



For example, I might be driving over the Pali Highway and get irritated by the way someone is driving (yes, I do get irritated by other drivers J)  As soon as I notice how I am feeling, I will look around and find something to appreciate!  For example, I might look up and see a waterfall or a rainbow, I might see the sun peeking through the clouds, or a song I like might come on the radio, or I might see someone in a car next to me singing out loud while they are driving… you get the idea.



Hint: If you catch your negative feelings quickly, before they spiral downwards into anger and resentment, it is A LOT easier to shift to appreciation.



If you choose to tap into the Power of Appreciation every day, you will begin to experience amazing results – your “tuning fork” will ‘activate’ more things in your experience that you will find easy to appreciate!  You will experience more Serendipity in your life, you will attract more pleasure, joy, delight and fulfillment.



It sounds simple, and it is, and with a little practice you can easily tap into the “Power of Appreciation”!  Try it and let me know what you experience!!



Have a wonderful Thanksgiving season of Appreciation!

Thanks for reading, I appreciate You!

In appreciation,
Maureen


 (Here was a lovely moment of appreciation....)